Healing Addictions to Pornography and Sex

Published by on September 11, 2018

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It is very possible to heal an addiction to Pornographic materials and to Sex. Many take the route working in Support Groups and with Psychologists. This is a great first step and if that heals your addictions then more power to you. However, I want to let you know about some spiritual help that is also available. There are many spiritual resources that will help when working with any type of addiction and there is also emotional and thought releasing that can help tremendously as well. These spiritual resources are  free and are available 24 hours a day 365 days a year. In this article I am going to speak to you about all of these alternative avenues.
        
The first thing I want to mention is about your thoughts. With Sexual related issues many of these problems initially stem from our thoughts and beliefs. Society perpetuates this by making us believe that these types of pornographic thoughts and behaviors are normal. Sex is normal when it's loving and consensual between two individuals. However, with anything that is pleasurable with in the body it can easily be distorted just like overeating. To quote Dr. Phil he says that "Pornography is not normal, this is someone's son or daughter who has taken a very wrong turn in their lives, and by witnessing this you are perpetuating their pain". Of course, many of us do not do this consciously, but it is still degrading to these individuals nonetheless, even if they themselves aren't even aware of the exploitation. So we have to stop our selves when we have these thought that this is normal and acceptable behavior. If you have this belief and do not know how to release it, it will be very hard to overcome your addiction. So it's absolutely vital that you learn how to release. 
         

Releasing thoughts and emotions about sex or anything else is just a technique that can be taught very simply with the Sedona Method. I highly recommend learning this technique and using it as a valuable adjunct to your current therapy. I was personally able to heal my issues using only the Sedona Method, but for those instructed to get professional help please do so and use the Sedona Method as I said before as an adjunct to your healing. The Sedona Method will of course help tremendously with this issue, but you will also see a vast improvement of every area of your life, even your finances!!! You can obtain a Free DVD to get you started on the invaluable path of releasing.
           

OK, so there is another valuable resource that I do not want you to discount and that is God. We live in a spiritual world even though we may not physically see it or believe it. We are extremely focused on the physical aspect of our lives that we easily miss the subtle yet powerful spiritual world that is all around us. We have spirit guides and angels that want to help us, but since we all live under the Law of Free Will we must ask for help first. One of the most powerful ways to heal is through Christ. Even wanted pornographic thoughts or urges take a brief moment and ask for Christ to heal your mind of these thoughts and to heal your body of these emotions and then release them to Christ. He will heal you! Christ is non-denominational no matter what you have heard. He loves all of God's children and he is here to save all of God's children not just Christians. He wants to save everyone.

Christ knows that one way darkness invades and infiltrates us is through lust. It seems so harmless to most of us, but it is definitely the device of evil used to take us over and lead us astray. Darkness takes a beautiful act of lovemaking and turns into something dirty and vile. So with that being said, please start witnessing these thoughts, become aware of them and just look at them from a detached perspective and ask Christ for healing. There is no need to berate yourself for having these thoughts, many great people in this world have also had these thoughts as well even spiritual people. What you resist persists, so if you struggle with these thoughts and behaviors with all of your strength they will most likely stay with you. So just let them be OK for the moment and then let them go using the Sedona method and also to Christ.
     

These thoughts and behaviors do not define who you are. You are a valuable child of God no matter what you have done and you deserve to know what real love feels like.  These lustful thoughts and beliefs keep us separate from our sexual partner and keep us from experiencing true intimacy and real love. Remember,  when Christ lived here as the individual Jesus, he associated himself with prostitutes and criminals because he knew that they needed him the most and that their lives were just as precious as his own in the eyes of God. So release any shameful thoughts or emotions to God and keep a watchful eye and start becoming conscious when you are thinking those thoughts. The book A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle teaches very clearly how to  bring consciousness to your thoughts and emotions, so reading this book can be a powerful tool.
         

Mediation is one great way to become aware of your thoughts also.Meditation trains your mind to learn to quiet itself and brings peace into your life. Start out slow with meditation. 5 minutes at a time every day at first,then increase by five minute increments every week. Once you make it to 30 to 40 minutes per day that is an excellent amount of time to devote. Your mind will wander some in the beginning but let that be OK. That the human mind can be very yappy, but just accept it and try your best. This also gives you a great opportunity to release your thoughts and beliefs to Christ and ask for healing whenever you need it. A great book that covers this is a Return to love by Marianne Williamson, she teaches principals from A Course in Miracles and shows you how Christ is available for healing and that his main desire is to heal the world one person at a time.

Remember peace starts within. We can't have world peace until all individuals have peace first. It is possible to experience true peace now- its actually a beautiful energetic feeling "It truly is the peace that passeth all understanding. That is because our egos do not understand peace, peace and love are experienced through your soul. Since we are humans and beings "human beings" meaning the merging of the spiritual and physical together we can experience things from a spiritual perspective or strictly from a physical perspective. So meditation is one great avenue for helping us to become more conscious of our spiritual side.
           

The next spiritual resource I want to mention is Archangel Michael. He is the protector Angel. Doreen Virtue who writes about him extensively calls him the bouncer angel because he makes sure that all spirits that are by you are the ones that are suppose to be there. So call on him for protection often.Ask him for an energetic clearing as well. There are lower energies and spirits that love to feed on your lustful thoughts and will actually help to perpetuate your thinking of pornographic thoughts this way. When you engage in pornographic acts or thoughts these energies feed off of your energy.The literally become psychic vampires that need you to degrade yourself for their fuel.Don't be afraid though the light is always stronger than the dark forces and there is help available to you. If you ask Michael he will escort these entities humanly into the light or back to where they came from. He will help you clean up your energetic landscape.Ask Michael to vacuum you and your home, work place, and vehicle. I recommend reading "Healing with the Angels" by Doreen Virtue she is the angel expert and she will guide you where you need to go. You can listen to her Angel shows for free on Hay House Radio website.
         

Bottom line is if you have tried other methods and failed try spiritual healing and Release [http://www.transcend-emotions.com] you will actually enjoy it and benefit tremendously from it. Miracles are normal and simple when you ask Spirit for them. Asking and conscious awareness is all that is expected of you in return and a strong desire to heal. Spiritual help is always available to you and you are always worthy of it. It's God's good pleasure to share his kingdom with you, but the question is how much goodness will you allow in your life?


Source by Cate Phillipps
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